In North Carolina, the fourth grade curriculum is focused on our state. During last summer my son and I explored our state to coincide with his study of NC. It was a fun adventure, and something I recommend whether the adventure is for kids or adults. Viewing your state as a visitor, tourist, and teacher will have you seeing things in a whole new light.
We created a bingo board to determine where we would visit. You can see it here:
He could choose any line he wished, and we visited. We also kept a map of NC counties and marked which we had driven through or visited on our travels. We explored college campuses, a beach, state parks, museums, and a variety of local restaurants as well as some of our state’s government buildings. It was fantastic. I wish so much I would have done the same thing with my oldest.
With us nearing the summer, he has requested we pull out the old NC Bingo board again and make plans to mark off some of the other squares we didn’t get to last year. I am happy to oblige. I’m not quite sure where we may end up, but he has mentioned the possibilities of Asheville and Greensboro.
When I think back on my own childhood, so many of my favorite memories with my parents were little adventures and road trips. After my brother was born, my dad made it a priority to spend every Saturday doing something fun with just the two of us. How I treasure those memories. When I was really young, my mom and I would take off to Charlotte to visit her sister and my cousins. And I have loads of memories of my grandparents taking me to visit great aunts and uncles or for a day of adventure to an amusement park or zoo.
When my oldest was growing up, we would often have summer adventures of visiting a waterpark or library or amusement park. One morning I woke him early and we had a day of all of his favorite things including exploring a nearby NASCAR shop.
There are so many things I wish I could have done or could do better as a parent. I’ve lost my temper. I’ve been too permissive. I’ve zoned out. I’ve hovered. I’ve cared about some things I should not have and neglected things I should have addressed. But, I’m pretty sure one thing I’ve done pretty well is set aside quality time with them. I’m looking forward to doing it again this summer with my youngest.